Hopefully by now you have a really good sense of what your perfect, dreamy, stress free holiday would look like. Now here's the bad news....That's probably not how it's going to go. So my husband hates this phrase. Maybe you do too....read to discover easy ways to balance your dream with the reality and still get what you want.
So this is WAY easier than our last blog post. Here we are going to focus on needs and wants. If you haven't filled out the PDF worksheet click here…
Saying no is hard. Saying no means we are putting ourself first, taking a stand for what we need and want. Saying no means we are declaring our desire. Saying no means that something or someone isn't working for us. Saying no may hurt someone's feelings. Saying no may create tension. Some people might not like when we say no. When we realize that supporting ourselves can feel better and more fulfilling than having the support of others, saying no gets easier.
Before you can even think of having the holiday that you desire you have to decide what is important. More than that, you have to decide what's important to YOU. Read to discover a simple exercise to declare what's important to you this holiday season.
The holidays are upon us and there are at least a million blog posts about how to survive them. Somehow, the most magical time of the year quickly becomes the most stressful time of year. Let's stop that. Let's make this the year that you take the holiday back and make it magical for YOU.